I feel this deeply about networking. I loved Quiet, it changed my understanding of introversion and took away a lot of the negativity associated with being introverted.
This was a great post, thank you. I am “on” every day at my small gift shop (where it’s just me) and I sometimes kick myself when I get home and just want to get into bed, but I think needing to talk to anyone who comes into the store at any moment is exhausting! I love it, but it takes a toll.
This article was really good, it made me think a lot about creating luck. Luck from being generous, luck from connections outside your primary social circle. Great way for introverts who may have a smaller luck surface area to think about creating more luck in their lives.
Such a great post! I have also been working on networking this past year and there is definitely an art to it. Very interesting about being on before going into an event, I didn’t do this for one I went to last month and the way people reacted to me was different. Something to consider!
Good morning Grace, as always I appreciate the effort it takes to provide a post that includes a variety of different subjects as well as your honesty on being an introvert. I am looking forward to your upcoming trip abroad and the fashion component associated with it. Thank you.
Hi Grace, interesting introspective. I appreciate you bringing awareness to this sometimes very misunderstood topic. I really admire how you embrace your introversion—it’s such a core part of who you are, not something you ever need to fix. While you can definitely build skills to feel more comfortable in crowds, your natural way of recharging will always be uniquely yours.
Socializing can most definitely deplete your battery, and being "on" takes a lot of effort. But it’s so clear you know how to make your strengths work for you, especially seeing the success of your blog and all the exciting projects you have going on.
It’s blatantly apparent you’re an amazing listener, you genuinely care about others perspectives, you’re so savvy about building your business relationships and still believe in the lost art of
handwritten notes. I realize we are all spinning a lot of plates, but I have never regretted taking the time to write a note to someone.
As long as you fiercely protect that crucial alone time to refresh and deliberately hit pause to restore your mental, physical, and emotional energy.you can achieve absolutely anything.
When it comes to networking, reframing it can make a world of difference. It doesn't have to be draining small talk—it’s just about making meaningful connections.
You don’t always need to be the loudest voice in the room to make an impact. Ultimately, it’s your genuine kindness and sincere thoughtfulness that leave a lasting and memorable impression. Keep being you—you're doing great.
I enjoyed reading Lena’s story in Famesick. I did gasp a few times at medical news but am glad she’s voicing her experience. It takes guts to be so honest. Props to you as well for being so open in your essays. Even when I don’t have the same experience I always get what you are saying and appreciate your perspective.
I ultimately agree. I think I just wish I read it on paper so that I could have skipped those parts. That being said, I love a celebrity memoir so much, it’s fun feeling like they are your friend, gabbing away with you.
I just finished reading Famesick myself and I think I had the opposite experience! I loved the first third of the book - her crazy ascension in Hollywood, the BTS of Girls, the early signs that her body is starting to break down... and then the whole thing became way too drawn-out and repetitive for me. It's not that I don't find the rest of her story interesting (it is interesting!), but the way she tells it felt like going round and round in circles, the same mistakes, the same emotions, the same people, over and over again. I do love her writing style - the "PSYCHO STUFF" part with Bruce Springsteen made me lol - but the structure & length of the book didn't work for me.
This post is very enlightening for me! You have perfectly described the way I feel about social situations. From what I remember of my business experiences(I've been retired for years) I'm sure I would have benefitted in that area as well from your post. Thank you so much!
This post was super helpful. As a fellow introvert, I wholeheartedly prefer 1:1 connections. When I network in large groups I feel like no one gets your attention.
I feel this deeply about networking. I loved Quiet, it changed my understanding of introversion and took away a lot of the negativity associated with being introverted.
I always say that book changed my life!! I’ve never felt so understood.
That book also changed my life,
This was a great post, thank you. I am “on” every day at my small gift shop (where it’s just me) and I sometimes kick myself when I get home and just want to get into bed, but I think needing to talk to anyone who comes into the store at any moment is exhausting! I love it, but it takes a toll.
Oh that is so exhausting!!!!! I used to have to sit in silence for an hour or two when I got home from my day job.
This article was really good, it made me think a lot about creating luck. Luck from being generous, luck from connections outside your primary social circle. Great way for introverts who may have a smaller luck surface area to think about creating more luck in their lives.
I love the way you phrased that!
Thanks for sharing these tips on both mindset and tactics for introverts to network! I especially love the one about celebrating others’ wins.
So important!!!!
So many valuable takeaways from this, Grace. As always, thank you for your generosity and wisdom. Sincerely, A Fellow Introvert Who Seeks Connection.
I’m so glad it was helpful! xx
Such a great post! I have also been working on networking this past year and there is definitely an art to it. Very interesting about being on before going into an event, I didn’t do this for one I went to last month and the way people reacted to me was different. Something to consider!
It’s an art, and it’s work, and it sucks the life out of me but it can be really worthwhile too!
Connector energy here! I think nothing makes me happier than connecting people. It’s so lovely to bring people together. Loved this Grace x
Same here! Well, that and having a close friend love a book I recommend!
Good morning Grace, as always I appreciate the effort it takes to provide a post that includes a variety of different subjects as well as your honesty on being an introvert. I am looking forward to your upcoming trip abroad and the fashion component associated with it. Thank you.
Thanks, Marline!
Thank you! Perfectly timed and well-received advice.
So happy that it was helpful!
Hi Grace, interesting introspective. I appreciate you bringing awareness to this sometimes very misunderstood topic. I really admire how you embrace your introversion—it’s such a core part of who you are, not something you ever need to fix. While you can definitely build skills to feel more comfortable in crowds, your natural way of recharging will always be uniquely yours.
Socializing can most definitely deplete your battery, and being "on" takes a lot of effort. But it’s so clear you know how to make your strengths work for you, especially seeing the success of your blog and all the exciting projects you have going on.
It’s blatantly apparent you’re an amazing listener, you genuinely care about others perspectives, you’re so savvy about building your business relationships and still believe in the lost art of
handwritten notes. I realize we are all spinning a lot of plates, but I have never regretted taking the time to write a note to someone.
As long as you fiercely protect that crucial alone time to refresh and deliberately hit pause to restore your mental, physical, and emotional energy.you can achieve absolutely anything.
When it comes to networking, reframing it can make a world of difference. It doesn't have to be draining small talk—it’s just about making meaningful connections.
You don’t always need to be the loudest voice in the room to make an impact. Ultimately, it’s your genuine kindness and sincere thoughtfulness that leave a lasting and memorable impression. Keep being you—you're doing great.
Have a wonderful weekend and happy travels ◡̈ !
xx
Thank you as always for such a thoughtful comment, Catherine! I hope you have a great week! xx
I enjoyed reading Lena’s story in Famesick. I did gasp a few times at medical news but am glad she’s voicing her experience. It takes guts to be so honest. Props to you as well for being so open in your essays. Even when I don’t have the same experience I always get what you are saying and appreciate your perspective.
I ultimately agree. I think I just wish I read it on paper so that I could have skipped those parts. That being said, I love a celebrity memoir so much, it’s fun feeling like they are your friend, gabbing away with you.
I just finished reading Famesick myself and I think I had the opposite experience! I loved the first third of the book - her crazy ascension in Hollywood, the BTS of Girls, the early signs that her body is starting to break down... and then the whole thing became way too drawn-out and repetitive for me. It's not that I don't find the rest of her story interesting (it is interesting!), but the way she tells it felt like going round and round in circles, the same mistakes, the same emotions, the same people, over and over again. I do love her writing style - the "PSYCHO STUFF" part with Bruce Springsteen made me lol - but the structure & length of the book didn't work for me.
That is so funny, it sounds like we did!!!
Really enjoyed your honesty and this read. Thank you!
I agree, I really enjoyed this one!
Thank you!
thank you!
This post is very enlightening for me! You have perfectly described the way I feel about social situations. From what I remember of my business experiences(I've been retired for years) I'm sure I would have benefitted in that area as well from your post. Thank you so much!
This post was super helpful. As a fellow introvert, I wholeheartedly prefer 1:1 connections. When I network in large groups I feel like no one gets your attention.